Researchers say the results show that people are forever optimistic when it
comes to online dating: whilst a majority believing others also lie when
writing online profiles, when comes to actually reading about potential
dates, they are far more likely to believe what they are reading is true.
Greg Hodge, managing director of BeautifulPeople.com, a dating community
exclusively for good-looking people, said: "The online dating industry
is a minefield of people misrepresenting themselves.
"You arrange a date with a pretty young woman with a "slim build"
and when you meet her it's like she's sent her fat older sister. Trust is
broken on the first – and last – date."
Pretending to work in healthcare, finance and the film industry were the top
three lied-about professions for men, whilst creating jobs in entertainment,
marketing and finance were top for women.
There was also a difference between countries, with over 53 per cent of
Americans admitting to lying about their appearance compared to just 44 per
cent of Britons.
Mr Hodge went on: "American society is more obsessed with appearance and
stature than the British so it makes sense that they would embellish the
truth.
"What doesn't make sense is that British online daters are more honest –
they have much more to lie about, being amongst the least attractive people
in the world."
But in a sign that with age comes acceptance, on both sides of the Atlantic,
the older people got, the less likely they were to be untruthful about their
appearance and how much they earned.
Mr Hodge added: "People need to know what they are getting. Nobody wants
to trawl through a gallery of nightmares making out they're Megan Fox when
they look like Mrs Doubtfire.
"Our members are selected by their peers, and we're the only dating
website with an authenticity app that verifies members look as they have
represented themselves in their photos.
"This increases safety and vastly improves the user experience. I defy
any other site to have members who are as true to their profiles as ours."
The top ten lies told by men:
1. Job (better than it is)
2. Height (taller)
3. Weight (losing or gaining a few pounds)
4. Physique (athletic)
5. Money
6. More senior than they really are at work
7. Interesting profession
8. Knowing celebrities
9. Having a PA
10. Working in the film industry
Top ten lies told by women:
1. Weight (losing a few pounds)
2. Age (losing a few years)
3. Physique (toned)
4. Height
5. Money
6. Bust (gaining proportions)
7. Glamorous profession
8. Knowing celebrities
9. Having a PA
10. Working in entertainment